30-year-old roommate invites his entire family for a long weekend in their 2-bedroom apartment, demands his flatmate clear out: ‘2 adults and 2 teenagers, in a 2-bedroom apartment’

Two-bedroom apartment, four surprise guests, and a built-in expectation that the paying roommate disappears. That isn't hospitality, it's a soft eviction with snacks. The invite was already sent, permission treated like a courtesy call, and the timing landed during week two of a new job when reliability actually matters. Then came the pocket speakerphone verdict from Mom: brazen, disrespectful, selfish. Translation: saying no made the plan inconvenient, so the no must be defective.

Shared housing needs consent, not retroactive blessings. Six people in a two-bed isn't "family time," it's a sleepover with plumbing risk and zero privacy. If someone wants their whole family to move in for a long weekend, they can get a hotel, shorten the visit, or ask like an adult and accept no like an adult. Broadcasting the dispute to a parent isn't proof of righteousness; it's proof of a weak case.

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  • AIO to my flatmate inviting his entire family to stay with us and expecting me to stay somewhere else

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  • The situation here is pretty obvious: dutiful son, unreasonable roommate, family values versus “selfishness.” The facts are simpler: rent buys presence, not guilt. You’re not overreacting for keeping your space and your schedule intact before a new job. That’s not insulting, that’s basic functioning.

  • My flatmate (30M) invited his entire family to stay the weekend (fri-mon) next month. 2 adults and 2 teenagers, in a 2- bedroom apartment.
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  • He came to me to ask if it was okay (he'd already invited them and assumed that I would go and stay with my parents that weekend).
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  • I start a new job next month so would need to be be at the flat both the Friday and the Monday, so I said no because it would mean traveling late Friday and traveling back on Monday early enough to come home and get ready for work and leave whilst they're still there.
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  • Also I don't want to risk any problems or being late whilst i'm training at my new job.
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  • After I said this I heard his mom on the phone talking about how i'm r de and disrespectful for not letting them stay.
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  • I didn't know my housemate was on speakerphone with her when he was talking to me, his phone was in his pocket.
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  • I tried to explain to both my housemate and his mom that it just wouldn't be feasible, even without the fact that I would literally be in the 2nd week of a new job.
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  • Not that imo it's insane to try and fit 6 people into a 2-bedroom apartment, but they called me selfish and that I "didn't have to be r de about it."
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  • Am I overreacting for thinking this is really disrespectful? Not only inviting them without asking me and expecting me to stay somewhere else, but creating a situation where I look like the bad guy to his mom?
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  • Final policy, free to frame on the fridge: shared lease, shared limits, no ambushes, no third-party juries. If guests don’t fit the apartment or the calendar, they don’t fit the weekend.

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